All that I am, all that I ever was…

I am more than my mental health. I am more than my homelessness. I am more than any one aspect of me. I am Addy. And this is…


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{NSFW} 17. Setting the record straight

Nearly a year ago I began working through a blog challenge I found online entitled 30 Days of Kink. It was a  blog challenge that went uncompleted, something that has always annoyed me.

Unsurprisingly, this blog challenge is a little more ‘adult’ than some of the other blog challenges I partake of on this blog.

After the whining password-protected dirge I posted a couple of days ago (which has since been deleted) I’ve decided to pick up the dropped gauntlet and finish off this challenge; partly because I’m tired of starting challenges that I never finish, and partly because I think it would do me good to write about this subject a little more given my current anxieties surrounding it.

So, without further ado, let’s kick off with day seventeen of the 30 Days of Kink challenge: what misconceptions about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

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{NSFW} 13. Desires and needs

Back in November 2012 I began working through a blog challenge titled 30 Days of Kink. It was a challenge that looked at the more ‘deviant’ side of my personality; the random kinks and fetishes that drive my sexually creative and passionate mind. For numerous reasons I wasn’t able to complete all the posts, so will, from time to time, work through the remaining prompts of this most confrontational and revealing of blog challenges. Re-starting today with…

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?
Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

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