All that I am, all that I ever was…

I am more than my mental health. I am more than my homelessness. I am more than any one aspect of me. I am Addy. And this is…


5 Comments

My Life in Television

Over the last year I’ve been writing a sporadic series titled  ‘My Life in…‘ where I highlight the films/books/moments/music that have defined me through each year of my life. Today it’s time to settle onto the couch, as we look over the last thirty-four years of television and all the series that have defined my life.

The rule is simple, for each year since my birth I’ve chosen a show that debuted in that year. These are not necessarily the best television series of each year, but the ones that speak of who I am in my soul.

My Life in Television

poltergeist

No poltergeist was summoned during the writing of this post (I hope!)

1978 ~ GRANGE HILL

Ahhh, Grange Hill. Anyone who grew up in the UK during the 80s will now be flashing back to that magnificent theme tune and remembering Mr Bronson, Mrs McCluskey and Todd Carty (pre-Eastenders). Anyone who grew up outside the UK will now be wondering what the hell this show is…basically it was an ongoing children’s drama set within a comprehensive school; cue storylines involving drug overdoses, mischief-laden school trips and visits to the headmaster’s office. An absolute classic!

1979 ~ NOT THE NINE O’CLOCK NEWS

Aside from Monty Python, this is one of the greatest sketch comedies ever. Rowan Atkinson, Mel Smith, Griff Rhys Jones, Pamela Stevenson and her future husband, Billy Connolly.

1980 ~ YES, MINISTER and KICK START

Yes, Minister – one of the finest political sitcoms ever made. Kick Start – one of the finest ‘perform tricks on a motorcycle’ game shows ever made!

1981 ~ ONLY FOOLS AND HORSES

(Possibly) my favourite British sitcom of all time and the only one to ever make me cry.

1982 ~ THE COMIC STRIP PRESENTS…

This fantastic half-hour comedy series starred Dawn French, Robbie Coltrane, Jennifer Saunders and more. Notable in my life for the single greatest “Famous Five” spoof ever made!

1983 ~ BLACKADDER

If you haven’t seen this comedy series…finish reading this post, leave a jovial comment, then head to your local DVD retailer and pick up the complete series box set. Personally, I love Blackadder II, mainly because Miranda Richardson is magnificent as Queen Elizabeth and Stephen Fry, as always, is superb as Melchett.

1984 ~ THE BILL and CITY LIGHTS

The Bill; a quintessential British police drama than ran until 2010. City Lights; a not quite as quintessential Scottish sitcom that ran until 1991.

1985 ~ TELLY ADDICTS and NEIGHBOURS

In the mid-90s, my family applied to appear as contestants on the television quiz show Telly Addicts. We weren’t successful, but it didn’t deter us playing along at home each and every week. As for Neighbours, this was required viewed for a teenager in the UK when I was growing up. It probably still is! :p

1986 ~ CASUALTY and THE SINGING DETECTIVE

Casualty is a looooonnnnggggggg running drama/soap based in a hospital. Think Grey’s Anatomy without the musical episodes. In researching this article I was surprised to find it is still running. Meanwhile, The Singing Detective is one of the monuments of television drama and demands multiple viewings!

1987 ~ GOING FOR GOLD

A quality quiz show in which contestants from all over Europe competed to win something (I don’t remember what!) The only thing I can remember about this show was the theme music, which was composed by Hans Zimmer – now an Oscar-winning film composer!

1988 ~ THE LION, THE WITCH AND THE WARDROBE

This BBC adaptation is still the greatest interpretation of C.S. Lewis’ classic children’s novel. The fact I used to have nightmares about being attacked by giant beavers is in no way a comment on its quality.

1989 ~ QUANTUM LEAP and SAVED BY THE BELL

Saved by the Bell; the show that introduced me to the beautiful Tiffani Amber Theissen. Quantum Leap; the show that (Doctor Who aside) defines my early teenage years. Fun Fact: When Scott Bakula uttered the phrase “Oh Boy” during his appearance in Chuck, I almost died of glee! :p

1990 ~ TWIN PEAKS and THE CRYSTAL MAZE

Twin Peaks is one of the few masterpieces of television…The Crystal Maze, not so much, but was a damned entertaining game show that once upon a time I aspired to be a contestant on.

1991 ~ MR BEAN

I adore Rowan Atkinson. That is all.

1992 ~ HIGHLANDER: THE SERIES

One of the most important television series of my life; I miss this show with an intense and fiery passion.

1993 ~ CRACKER

One of the greatest crime dramas ever!

1994 ~ TAKIN’ OVER THE ASYLUM and DUE SOUTH

Takin’ Over the Asylum is the single greatest drama ever made on the subject of mental illness and should be required watching for anyone working/interested in the field of mental health. Due South is one of the greatest Canadian television series ever and should be required watching for anyone with a Mountie fetish.

1995 ~ HAMISH MACBETH

If there is a man or woman able to watch this show without falling wildly in love with Robert Carlyle, I’ve yet to meet her! If there’s a man or woman able to watch this show without falling wildly in love with Shirley Henderson, I’ve yet to meet her! As for Plockton (aka Luchdubh in the show) I’ve been there…and it’s gorgeous!

1996 ~ THE PRETENDER

All I really remember about this show is that (a) I loved it and (b) they stopped screening it midway through a season so I never found out how it ended.

1997 ~ BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER

I have written extensively of my love of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, so I shall say no more about it here.

1998 ~ SEACHANGE, THE MICALLEF P(R)OGRAM(ME) and THE GAMES

There are only four Australian shows on this list, and these are three of them! SeaChange reminds me of my relationship with Louise and the early days of my time in Australia. The Micallef P(r)ogram(me) is the greatest work of Australian comedian (and genius) Shaun Micallef and The Games is possibly the greatest thing to ever be produced in the history of Australian television.

1999 ~ SPACED and FREAKS AND GEEKS

If you have never seen Spaced, you’ve never lived. The same could be said for Freaks and Geeks, but considering it has yet to see an Australian DVD release, few people in Australia have. Their loss!

2000 ~ BLACK BOOKS

The greatest ‘set in a book shop’ sit-com ever made.

2001 ~ SMALLVILLE, UNDECLARED and 24

I’ve often ranked Undeclared as one of the greatest comedy series ever made. But, like it Freaks and Geeks predecessor few people have ever seen it due to a serious lack of DVD release outside of Australia. 24 (and Jack Bauer) is a majestic work of absolute beauty that few people ever really appreciated (or understood), whilst Smallville is one of the great genre shows of the last twenty years. Well, until the hideous monstrosity that was Season 7, that is!

2002 ~ FIREFLY

Yes, it’s the second most over-rated series in the history of television. But it’s still pretty good! :p

2003 ~ ONE TREE HILL

Again, I’ve written a lot about this show in the past, especially how it once saved my life.

2004 ~ RESCUE ME and WONDERFALLS

Wonderfalls – the greatest ‘series that no-one’s ever heard of’ in the history of television. Damn you television networks for cancelling this masterpiece! However, a massive thank you to the networks, cast and crew for the exceptional drama series Rescue Me; one of the ‘must watch’ shows of all time.

2005 ~ HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER, INVASION, WEEDS and SUPERNATURAL

Look, I couldn’t choose, okay? How I Met Your Mother is a magnificent sitcom that’s helped me no end over the last several years. Invasion is an underrated gem that introduced me to Alexis Dziena. Weeds is a magnificent opus of delightful writing and incredible acting. Whereas Supernatural is not only a show I’ve turned to in times of great distress but one of the finest urban-fantasy series in recent memory.

2006 ~ 30 ROCK and TORCHWOOD

In regards to 30 Rock: Tina Fey, genius. ‘Nuff said! :p And…if I can’t have Doctor Who (damn you year of birth!) at least I can take some solace with Torchwood.

2007 ~ CHUCK, THE SARAH JANE ADVENTURES and SKINS

It was impossible to pick between these three shows. All have saved my life. All are exceptionally well written, beautifully performed and deeply inspirational. Three of my favourite shows of all time.

2008 ~ FRINGE and jPOD

Fringe; a masterwork of science-fiction that took me years to fully appreciate. jPod, yet another show no-one ‘s ever heard of that I adored! Go Canadian television!

2009 ~ COMMUNITY

The greatest comedy series currently being made. And not just because it stars the magnificent Alison Brie! :p

2010 ~ TODD AND THE BOOK OF PURE EVIL

This show helped my survive the chaos that was 26 February 2013; it is also a magnificent and creative comedy-horror series!

2011 ~ GAME OF THRONES

However much I want to dislike like this show because I (occasionally) love being a ‘lone wolf’, I just can’t.

2012 ~ GIRLS

Some of its male characterisation aside (a problem that also affected Sex in the City), this is one of the few series of late that I’ve developed an attachment to.

~ FYI, I deliberately left out animated series. Perhaps I will return to these in the future! :p ~

~~♥~~

Other titles in the “My Life in…” series:
| …movies | …books | …animated movies | …happy memories | …music | …video games |


5 Comments

Booty

For those of you who don’t know what this cute little critter is, it’s an Adipose; (arguably) the cutest alien in the Doctor Who canon. And the reason there is a photograph of an Adipose beginning this post is because it is my 12″ plush Adipose doll (Addy’s Adipose, or Addypose!)

As this post – much to the annoyance of casual (and regular) readers – is not about the human posterior, but valuable treasure I have received today :)

In fact, courtesy of mental health, social isolation and homelessness, this Adipose was the first present I’ve opened in four years! As I tore open the wrapping I had an inkling what ridiculously cute thing would be grinning back at me (mostly because the paper had become torn in the mail and I could see a very familiar looking tooth!) but it was immensely exciting opening a present after so long :)

Now most people will be wondering why this thirty-three…sorry, thirty-four…year old man became so excited upon receiving a cuddly toy as a present, but I am not ashamed of my reaction. I love Doctor Who. I love the Adipose. And my parents knew that! They knew it would bring a ludicrously big smile to my face whenever I look at that smirking expression and isn’t that what presents should do?

Bring a smile to someone’s face, be something personal and thoughtful to a person’s loves and passions?

Of course it is :)

~ Other booty that’s put a smile on my face today ~

(Also) From my parents

Two DS games; one a collection of 100 classic books (including Treasure Island (yay!), Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland (yay!), Jane Eyre (yay!) and Hamlet (yay!)) and the other Zelda: Phantom Hourglass (regular readers will know how much I love the Zelda series!).

As well as a new pair of socks, some Scotland flag tissues and three CDs (the best of 80s & 90s music and the Braveheart soundtrack score)

From the National Mental Health Commission

A report titled A Contributing Life, the first annual report card on the state of mental health and suicide prevention services in Australia.

Unsurprisingly, the report pointed out several dozen things that most users and workers of the mental health system have known for millenia (okay, slight exaggeration there) and further proves that Australian’s much prefer debating and conversing about issues rather than actually doing anything about it.

But, it was an excellent report that will hopefully (finallymaybe?) see some change in the appalling mental health services offered in this country.

I hope that we will all will look back on today as a special day, when all Australian governments and communities recognised that mental health and suicide prevention are and must remain a high, national priority and found the courage to address some difficult truths.

In particular, here are some of the things that worried us that we believe must, and can be fixed.

We are shocked and saddened by the long-term high rates of physical illness and early death among people with mental health difficulties.

The statistics related to the physical health of these Australians are appalling. Their health is worse than those in the general community on just about every measure.

Looking at people living with severe mental illnesses such as bi-polar disorder, schizophrenia or psychosis – their life expectancy is reduced by 25 years on average.

From Alan Fell’s Speech at the launch of the National Mental Health Commission’s Report

From The Curse of the Single Parent

Okay, granted she probably didn’t realise the importance of today, but to discover I’d been granted a blog award today put a massive smile on my face, even if I don’t consider myself all that sensual. Perhaps I am and that’s just the anxiety/immense self-criticism talking ;)

~ Sensual; Of or arousing gratification of the senses… ~

When nominated for the Sensual Blogging Award the blogger must:

  • Visit and thank the blogger who nominated you.
  • Acknowledge that blogger on your blog and link back.
  • Answer 7 sensual questions
  • Select some nominees and notify them on their blogs.
  • Copy and paste the award on your blog.

 

My answers:

1. Most romantic memory: My first kiss.

2. Most sensual music: Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds

3. Most sensual season: Winter; massaging in front of log fires, snuggling under the duvet, walks under a blanket of stars. :)

4. Favourite flower: Red rose (I’m a traditionalist!)

5. Favourite fruit: Honeydew Melon

6. Best gift received: The leather journal cover my sister gave me in the late ’90s. One of the few artifacts from my previous lives I still own :)

7. Love is

My Nominations:

 

..okay, they’re the only two I can think of right now as I don’t think I’m allowed to nominate the person who nominated me, so I shall have to think on this a little longer and edit the post a bit later otherwise I’ll never get around to posting it before I have to go out! :p

From a friend

Something I can’t really share as it’s a bit personal, but like I said at the beginning, personal presents are the best (most thoughtful) :)

From myself

The Dark Knight Trilogy on DVD. Granted, the third film was a bit of a let-down, but there’s no denying the quality of these three movies. As for Serena Ryder‘s new album Harmony, which was released yesterday, it is yet another stunning record from my all-time favourite musical artist.

From Labor MP Steve Gibbons

Further evidence that the quality of politics in Australia is beyond a joke:

LABOR MP Steve Gibbons has caused a stir by calling Tony Abbott a ”gutless douchebag” and Julie Bishop a ”narcissistic bimbo” on Twitter.

It is Mr Gibbons’ use of the word ”bimbo” that will cause the biggest headaches for Labor given Prime Minister Julia Gillard’s aggressive campaign against the Opposition Leader’s alleged misogyny.

Mr Gibbons later offered a qualified apology on Twitter, saying, ”Apologies to those offended by the use of the word Bimbo [sic]. I’ll replace that word with ‘Fool’ [sic].” He also deleted the offending tweets.

From Labor MP retreats after labelling Bishop a bimbo (via The Age)

~ and for those annoyed by my teasingly titled blog post, here is some booty for you… ~

:-)

Continue reading