Reading this list is like reading a biography of my abuser. She shares so many of these traits it is unbelievable.
We need to do more to raise awareness of abuse in relationships. We need to know what characteristics to look out for, and this article explains it perfectly. Read. Remember. And be on the lookout!
Here is a list of red flags that may help you to see early on that you are with an abusive personality. If you are seeing a few of these characteristics then you need to assert some boundaries with them and see how they react.
If they fight you about having simple personal boundaries then you need to realize that you may be in an abusive relationship.
Tell them you have to go sleep early one night because you have a lot to do the next day. If they do not accept this, then there is a problem.
No one should give you guilt or shame you that you are not good to them, when you are doing simple basic things to take care of yourself.
It is not normal for someone to threaten to leave you or call you a bad girlfriend if you want to do things for…
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