All that I am, all that I ever was…

I am more than my mental health. I am more than my homelessness. I am more than any one aspect of me. I am Addy. And this is…

Day 07: Four turn offs


The seventh day of the 10 Day Blogging Challenge asks for four turn offs.


1. Selfishness

There is nothing more annoying to me than a selfish individual. No one person on the planet is more important than any other, so people who act as if they are the soul and centre of the universe turn me off faster than you can hit standby on a television remote.

2. Unfaithfulness

Having been in relationships with two individuals who thought it was okay to cheat on me, I can vouch for how painful and destructive this kind of betrayal can be. Never again will I allow myself to be treated in this manner.

3. Non-existent pubic hair

I understand that there may be some hygienic value in shaving one’s pubic hair, but my personal preference is to sleep with someone who looks like an adult, not a pre-pubescent school-girl.

4. Lingerie

I’ve never been a huge fan of lingerie. Although I can understand the appeal of large volumes of naked flesh, I’ve always been far more attracted to the sexiness of a clothed woman, which is why I’m probably more drawn to classic Hollywood than I am the starlets of today. There’s just something intrinsically glorious about having to peel and reveal layers of clothing instead of having it just sitting in front of you. Which is probably why I hold flannelette PJs in such high regard.


5 thoughts on “Day 07: Four turn offs

  1. Was it Eric Fromm who collaborated on a book entitled “The Virtue of Selfishness”?


    • To be honest, I’m not sure. The Virtue of Selfishness is not a book I’m familiar with but will do some digging around and see what I can find out. :)


  2. You totally Rock Addy! I love my flannel pj’s and although I have a collection of lingerie I have not found a man good enough for them. lol


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