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But who can remember pain, once it’s over?

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East Beach, Port Fairy

East Beach, Port Fairy © Addy

“But who can remember pain, once it’s over? All that remains of it is a shadow, not in the mind even, in the flesh. Pain marks you, but too deep to see.”
  ~ Margaret Atwood ~

Seven years ago today I went to Port Fairy to end my life.
Weeks of planning culminated with me sitting on the East Beach with a knife,
my pain having grown too severe for me to deal with.

To this day I can remember with intimate clarity how much I wanted to die,
how much I craved for my insignificant ‘life’ to be over.

Alas, it wasn’t to be.

As I stared out over the Southern Ocean I was reminded of all I would miss,
of the passions that burned in my soul and the desires I’d yet to achieve.

A part of me has always regretted choosing life on that lonely night,
but hidden beneath this regret is pride; of my strength, of my belief,
of my stubborn determination to not let life beat me.

Perhaps one day it will,
but not today.

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5 thoughts on “But who can remember pain, once it’s over?

  1. I like your title, but who can remember pain once it is over. I am glad to be Thankful for your life. You did not end your life but you got up and move ahead. When we struggle at time, till a point we cannot bear with it, we make silly choices. I am remind from your post to be always gracefull, thankfull for the life I have. Sometimes, we just need to stop and reflect whether our action is worth or not.
    Thanking God you move ahead with Faith.

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  2. I am so grateful for your stubborn determination…I would never have met you, and that makes me sad.

    Many hugs today.

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  3. Powerful words. You are brave to have shared them. Thank you!

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  4. Sometimes I’m glad I have a pain memory.

    Glad you’re here :)

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